My Radical Year

Perfection. Man, this word has followed me everywhere.

How can we define perfection if we are imperfect?

When our focus is to be perfect like Christ, we are running toward a goal we can't even define. It makes it easy for us to lose a sense of clear direction because we don't actually have a clear goal. In that case, our life is more about the goal of "doing." We want to do as Christ did and do the right thing.

What happens when we stop trying to "do" and we focus instead on "being"?

The only way for us to be Christ, instead of trying to be like him, is to rely on what He's given us - the Holy Spirit. How can we be Christ or even be like Christ without Christ's Spirit? If we change our goals and focus on just God, where can we go wrong? If our focus is God, then we should seek God more, spend more time with God more, depend on God, all with a clear focus - God. If our focus is being like God, the focus is more on ourselves and our capability to change.

We aren't capable of change.

Not in our own power. True change is the change from being selfish to being selfless. We naturally want to place ourselves at the center of our universe. Even people will low self-esteem often place themselves in the center, it's just in a negative light instead of a positive one. The only way for us to truly change is to focus on God, because when our hearts and minds are turned toward God, His glory will shine on us and radiate through us. We're supposed to be like mirrors - reflecting God's glory and allowing God to see Himself in us. We're not dogs or animals trying to learn new tricks, and we're not chameleons trying to make ourselves morph into God. The more we lose ourselves, the more God can show Himself through us. The more we let go of the things we believe define us - like personality traits, likes & dislikes, our own moral code - the more God can replace those things in us with His characteristics and His heart.

To quote Casting Crowns, "With eyes wide open to the differences - the god we want and the God who is. But could we trade our dreams for His or are we caught in the middle?"

I can't imagine living a better life than a life where most of my time is spent in prayer and seeking to know God. Last year I read "Radical" by David Platt and I made several commitments. I promised to join a church, I promised to fast from buying books, movies, and music for my own personal pleasure, I promised to read through the Bible in one year, I promised to spend a portion of my life in another context (meaning in a different culture and place), and I promised to pray for the nations every day. This year, through attempting to keep these commitments, I learned a lot about myself.

1) Promising to join a church…
I did not officially join a church this past year, but I've realized that there's so much more to standing before the church saying, "I'm joining this specific Body." My life is in a perpetual state of transition right now. I lived in Birmingham from February to August, in Huntsville from August to January, and now I'm in South Africa until June. It seemed a little weird officially joining a church. What HAS stuck out is how I'm called to consistently be a part of the Body of Christ. College was a time where I was pretty unplugged from any consistent form of fellowship with the Body. I went to a different church each year of college because of several reasons, but mainly it came down to sound doctrine. I don't think I realized how important sound doctrine was to my faith until I came to college and found a lot of places that were either technically preaching the Gospel by word, but not by action and attitude of heart, and then I found places that just weren't teaching the Word, or they twisted the Word to fit their purposes. At one place I even made some of the church leadership angry because I was questioning what they were teaching and they accused me of being afraid of God. Well, YEAH. Duh. I am afraid of God. He's the only thing in the universe that can condemn me. He's the most just and righteous entity/ being/ spirit in existence. Of course I'm afraid of leading people astray and I'm afraid of fitting his Word to match my lifestyle and my natural instinct. When they accused me of that, it was one of the biggest wake up calls of my experience at that church. That was the first church that really turned me off to the whole idea of church. I've been hurt by church people before - I don't think there's any possible way to avoid getting hurt by church people during your lifetime (considering there are quite a few unSaved churched people). Anyway, I can talk about that another time because it's a whole 'nother topic.

So, God really showed me that regardless of my past experiences or my present situations, I really have to be involved as a member of the Body of Christ, regardless also of what church service I attend. So, I did some things I typically would not have done had I not been listening to God's urging. This past summer I joined a discipleship group at the church I had attended since the previous Thanksgiving. I knew there probably wouldn't be any UAB people and I knew I probably wouldn't know anyone in it, which generally terrified me. I was not good around new people - I've been extremely shy. BUT, I joined nonetheless because I knew God wanted me with a group of believers I could be transparent with. Guess what? Those girls - SO not scary. They were awesome! =) I grew a lot last summer because it was one of the few times where I was completely open to whatever God wanted to me to here. I struggle with being stubborn and clinging onto past experiences, but this summer I took a leap of faith and I learned more about God and my own faith than I have in a loooong time. I regularly attended our college ministry stuff and even had legit fun in the process. This probably doesn't sound like a big deal at all, but you just don't understand how scary people are to me. In my mind, people (even people that you truly love as friends, family, or your significant other) hurt you. They cause sometimes unbearable pain. I've had a lot of moments in my life where I've questioned my own significance as a human being solely because I felt so unbelievably worthless to everyone I cared about. This summer, God just kind of broke up a lot of my expectations and told me that I've just had lots of experiences with people that don't have Him hidden in their heart. He showed me a group of still imperfect people, but people that truly sought God. I can't really describe how much it meant to me that Erica, Hannah, Emily Grace, Emily, Janna, Katherine, and all the other D-group girls were willing to be friends with me and love me as their Sister when they didn't even know me.

Studying at Shades this summer, along with 'interning' aka. editing videos for their media director, opened my eyes to all the suspicion and distrust and resentment I had built up against the church. It showed me that I have a place in the Church and a calling to really be a Sister within the Body of Christ. It also showed me the importance of finding a family that's for real about following Christ, a family that is following the call to make disciples, a family that focuses on humility before God, a family that prays passionately, a family that depends on the Spirit, and a family that pour over the Word and promises and teaching of Christ. I'm so done with the pleasing doctrine that ignores God's Word and promises comfort and riches during this life. That's not what this life is about. This life is a race and it's not supposed to be rainbows and butterflies all the time. It's supposed to be about giving God glory throughout absolutely everything. So, in conclusion - wherever I am and for however long, I'm going to be involved in the Body of Christ. In Huntsville I was blessed to help out with my home church's youth group and puppet team, and now I'm in a praise band and I'm hoping to somehow get involved with the youth group if possible.

2) Promising to fast…
So, books, movies, and music = pretty much what I draw energy from. People talk about introversion and extraversion and how you either draw energy from people or from time alone. Well, I don't really care if people are with me or not with me, so long as I have time to completely lose myself in the awesome imagination God's blessed me with. Listening to just one song can put me in a completely different world. I decided to fast from these things for several reasons.

A. I wanted to spend more time with people and less by myself. I decided before I started my fast that I would still go to the movie theater with people, but I wouldn't buy my own movies or go to the theater alone. This was a LOT more difficult than I anticipated. I eventually got used to it, but not buying music whenever I wanted it was SO HARD. The awesome thing that came from this is that it made me value the money God gives me to spend more, because I had more money to spend with friends. I spent more time doing fun stuff with other people and sharing/ experiencing life with others, more so than I had previously done. I also had less incentive to stay in my room. I also was able to spend more on other people, and I've realized that I really like being able to say, "Don't worry! I've got you covered!" when someone worries about not having enough money to spend time with me and other friends. I know Feb 22nd is coming up close and my initial response is to buy and download every episode of Doctor Who, but now I'm really questioning if that's how I want to spend my money when I can use my money to help others, give to others, or use it to allow me to spend time with others. Same thing with movies and books.

B. When it came to individual books I wanted to read or movies people told me to watch, I started asking if I could borrow stuff. I wasn't really expecting this, but it really showed me which of my friends really trust me and which ones don't. I can say that I definitely chose some really great best friends. =) I can also say this showed me who I need to pray for because they have problems trusting their close friends…. I know myself, and I take good care of my stuff, particularly if it's not mine and I'm borrowing something. If I ruined something of someone else's I would replace it. I know my own character, and this experience revealed to me that I shouldn't get my feelings hurt so easily when people don't trust me after YEARS of friendship. I can't change their hearts by being any different than I already am, with the exception of praying for that person more and more. So, yeah. Friends. Learned a lot about them this past year. (Quick blurb: I think my best friends found out how much I really love to read this past year, because I got a lot of books for Christmas, and it really was an excellent Christmas =) Thanks guys!)

My fast is almost over and I can buy stuff again. I can't wait to see where I am a year from now and see how my method/ thought processes of buying fun stuff has changed.

3) Promising to read the Bible….
This started out so much easier the first half of the year… partially because it seemed like I had more time to study the Word in college than I did in real life after graduation, partially because it took a while before I hit Jeremiah and Ezekiel (ijfoiwejflksaejfoawiefaowief -- my feelings on these two books). About a month ago I realized that I was going to only read the Old Testament in a year. Luckily, I had already read the New Testament all the way through before last year when I made this commitment, so I can at least say I've read the entire Bible by this Feb 22nd. Looking back, I wish I would've started reading my Bible regularly when I first became a Christian when I was 15. I can look back and see the incredible power of the Lord in my life, but I would bet that the transformation I've experienced would've gone a lot quicker had a remained faithful in consistently reading and studying His Word. This year has shown me how interested I really am in studying the Word. It's gone from more than I desire just to read, and a much stronger desire to truly understand. That's why Jeremiah and Ezekiel really hung me up - I just don't get them. I understand the importance of truly following God and I understand His righteousness more, but there's just a lot of fire and brimstone type stuff that is heavy and I just don't get all of it. So, yeah. When this year is up I'm going to focus more one taking my time in studying the Word, as opposed to reading through.

I'm really happy I decided to read through the bible though. I loved reading through Job because now I know that regardless of any hardship I face, I'm supposed to remain faithful to God and that my faithfulness will most certainly pay off even when it seems like there's no hope. It inspired me to hold closer to God during hard times. I also loved reading Isaiah. God is so good :) He is a great God of great promises. Isaiah made me fall more in love with God and reminded me that after this life long race, I get to spend the rest of eternity in joyous praise of true holiness =)

Reading through the OT taught me much more than I can share right here, but overall it showed me that God's Word isn't an option in my life. If I want to grow, I have to seek God, pray, look and listen for him anywhere and everywhere, and read His Word - a great tool that too often gets overlooked.

4) Promising to spend my life in another context…
Well… hello. I'm in South Africa right now! Even though I spend the majority of my day in an office at work, I'm still intentionally going out to find ministries to get involved in outside of work. In my mind, everything I do is about bringing glory to God's name and trying to urge people to join in His great work! I'm so excited to have this opportunity to serve Him in a different culture and in a different phase of life. Primarily my goal is to make disciples. One quote that motivates me is from Francis Chan's talk at Passion 2012: "Do you really believe that God commanded you to go and make disciples? … Do you read that and go, 'Alright, I'm gonna go start making some disciples.' You guys, we gotta start doing this. Man, we talk about human trafficking… the solution to human trafficking is making disciples. That's a solution. It's changing people's hearts because some of the people that you go to school with, some of them will be the victims of human trafficking and some of them will be the culprits of it."

If we spend our lives fighting bad things because we want to get rid of bad things, and all we do is try to oppose bad things through our own resources and abilities, we're never going to get rid of the problem. The problem is that people need their lives changed, and not enough of us that have had our lives changed are willing to go out and talk about how others can receive life change. That's not me anymore. God saved me. He changed my life. I'm not compassionate or forgiving by my own power. I'm not caring or loyal by my own power. I can't write or edit videos because I made myself good at those things. Everything I am is because of the power of God in my life. Everything I do needs to be about Him. My life is wrong if it's not all about Him. My life is without purpose if I'm not glorifying Him. I'm not sure where I'll be 2, 10 or 50 years down the road, but the one thing I hope is forever consistent in my life is that I will glorify God in everything and that my life is about sharing His work, and His goodness, and His solution to all problems. I can't dedicate my life to anything better than that.

5) Promising to pray for the nations every day…
This was the one thing that really tripped me up. The biggest thing this year of radical-ness taught me was that I'm not a radical prayer warrior, but I DESPERATELY need to be. This has been a particularly big thing the past few weeks here in South Africa. Despite all I've learned about God in the past year, people still scare me, I miss my friends like you wouldn't believe it, I still have to surrender my doubt to God whenever it shows up, and through reading the Word and listening to the things some of my friends say and do and believe, I realize that I am so small. I am SO small. I can't, through my power, save my friends or make them understand God. I can't save the world or take away people's problems by myself. I'm not in control, I'm not powerful, and I don't have tons of money or ideas to create a perfect life for anyone. BUT, I have God. I think that the world would be a radically different place if every person that claimed they followed Christ spent 1 hour on their knees in earnest, heartfelt prayer every day. I truly believe our planet would be a different place if we Christians did that.

I personally rely on myself far too often. I process things on my own, I think a lot and use my own reasoning. I don't fall down before God and ask for help or beg for the salvation of those I care about every day, and I know I should be. Don't get me wrong - I have cried out to God for a lot of people that I love and even people that I don't even know. I'm just not consistent with it because I get so distracted. I've spent 10 years living inside my head and only really letting God in from time to time. I want to be able to radically pray anytime anywhere. I know this is going to take my own time though. I know I've got to choose to surrender my time, mind, and heart to pray for others. So, in an effort to become a radical prayer warrior, starting tomorrow I'm going to wake up at 4am each day and spend time on my knees praying. This won't be easy, cause the Lord knows I love my sleep. BUT I realize that there are SO many more people more important than my sleep. I also realize that I won't see crazy love or crazy healing in my own life for myself, my family and my friends if I don't daily spend time just asking God for His Hand, His Help, and His Spirit. So yeah. My radical year was missing 1/5th of the radical-ness that I hoped to experience, so it's time to remedy that.

In conclusion, I just want to reiterate that God is so good. I am powerless because God controls everything and He is above all things. Anything I do that makes me feel like I'm powerful is a trap and a lie. God is power. God is love.

God is my everything. He is perfection.